It’s so hot on this Roman balcony that my tears evaporate as they hit my cheeks. I’m in Italy. Beautiful, stinking hot Italy. It’s dusk. It’s golden hour. It’s so perfect that it hurts. In the last month of her life, as if knowing the end was nigh, my mother handed me a 5x7 white envelope with a handwritten letter and a cheque. Telling me that “although she wishes with all my soul that I could have had another trip with you, life had other plans. Please use this money to spend on memories. Go to Italy, toast to me and I will be with you.” Cut to 1 year and two months after that letter was placed in my tear stained hands, and here I am - toasting her with prosecco, some fresh figs (which she adored) and listening to Renato Carosone. It’s a cheerful Italian song from the 50’s. I can hear her singing along off-key, like she did in the hospital those last days, when I played it for her on my phone speaker. We were outside on the cafeteria terrace in the sun and she was in a wheelchair
There’s something about being on the west coast that gives me a reprieve. A little more time to mull things over. To assess what I'm feeling. Time that the east coast might have already fumbled. A chance to catch my breath and see my thoughts accumulate above me like those cartoon bubbles. A chance to be an alter ego. A chance to be bolder. A chance - period.